What do you do when you have a best friend and a boyfriend who both want to spend every second...

SW-User

It's going to continue to be rough, until one of them realizes that they are asking too much.

Problem is, typically the friends take a back seat when a relationship starts, but friends will be there when the relationship fizzles.

You may need to have a small talk with your friend - and your bf, because he should also be aware of the stress you're under.

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

You're an adult. With your own life to lead.
As are they !
You need to do what's right for you. Whether that be studying; Socializing; and all the other things you and they need to do !

If one or the other or both can't understand that,then maybe you need to let them both go.

UreBesFrend · M

Your bestie knows, if you marry this guy, she isn't going to see you much anymore, the thread is getting thinner. Trying to hang on.

Newandimproved · 61-69, M

you have to put your foot down and say
NO
I have work to do
I'll call you when I've finished and well see if we have some free time.

I need my space too

TryingtoLava

Wellll thats a hard one and unfair too. They both love you? Your BEST friend should understand. Shes bein selfish

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

Your best friend needs to give way to the bf and stop being so needy and selfish.

Quizzical · 46-50, M

Well... Your boyfriend seems overly dependant and your best friend seems childish. Good luck...

Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F

tough call.Glad you have both in your life.Try to make time for them but put school first.

SW-User

Find best friend a partner problem solved

Ajz59852 · 36-40, M

Make a schedule

Insomniac100

From what you’ve written it sounds like she’s being really clingy. You definitely need to at least talk to her about this

tligtmsli · M

Have a three some

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

You make a schedule. Meet them every third day.

tenente · 100+, M

do you want the GoT answer? Or, the sitcom answer?

What do you do when you have a best friend and a boyfriend who both want to spend every second of the day with you?