Are you a people pleaser?

By pleasing others, people lose themselves. Always be true to yourself and to your personal beliefs. That's what loving yourself is all about. Never allow others to determine your worth.

In life, you will meet a lot of mean, and disrespectful people. If they hurt you, that's because they have personal issues and are not on the same level as you are. Do not take that personally. No need to act on their insensitivity. There's nothing worse than bitterness and vengeance. Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you will be just like him. [Proverbs 26:4] Walk away, keep your dignity, and always be true to yourself. If you don't, no one else will.

As long as you are true to yourself, you will be happy. If you want the respect of others, respect and love yourself. Do your thing, and never apologize for who you are. To be true to yourself, is the most difficult thing to achieve, but the only way to find contentment in life. However, always be sure to weigh the pros and the cons, in order to find out what is actually right for yourself. Look at problems objectively, from both sides, to be fair. That way, you can make an informed decision as to the right decision, but never short-change yourself, nor take the blame, just to keep peace or please. Always be true to yourself, and always tell yourself the truth.