It used to feel odd to me too. I'd glance for maybe half a second just to show interest but then look away again. It gets easier with time and as you gain confidence. Now I probably make too much eye contact and make others look away.
			
			
			
			
			
		
			Myzery · 41-45, F			
		
		I do...due to my lazy eye.
I always hear, "I don't know where to look and it makes me uncomfortable."
So, best to not try to look people in the eye for their benefit.
			
			
			
			
			
		I always hear, "I don't know where to look and it makes me uncomfortable."
So, best to not try to look people in the eye for their benefit.
			SailorMarz · F			
		
		I don't like it either...I'm only like this with ppl who really like to analyze me...
But if the person is absent mindedly talking away & is into whatever they're saying then I don't mind eye contact.
			
			
			
			
			
		But if the person is absent mindedly talking away & is into whatever they're saying then I don't mind eye contact.
			DanielChristensen · 46-50, M			
		
		Sometimes if my bipolar cycle has me in a weird place. Otherwise I am fine with it, often engaging.
			
			
			
			
			
		
			MikefromEP · 56-60, M			
		
		@DanielChristensen Yet you don't go off on a tangent..
			
			
			
			
			
		
			DanielChristensen · 46-50, M			
		
		@MikefromEP Mike I've been a lunatic for 20 some odd years. Self control is something you learn, harder for some than others. I still have my moments.
			
			
			
			
			
		
			MikefromEP · 56-60, M			
		
		@DanielChristensen You ain't no different than anyone else
			
			
			
			
			
		
			sogdianrock · 61-69, M			
		
		hi GalacticJourney
Not in general but some people are hostile and it is painful to engage with them with eye contact. Look at their eye brows in that case.
Best wishes
:)
			
			
			
			
			
		Not in general but some people are hostile and it is painful to engage with them with eye contact. Look at their eye brows in that case.
Best wishes
:)
			vetguy1991 · 51-55, M			
		
		Its not easy until I know someone
			
			
			
			
			
		
			GalacticJourney · F			
		
		@vetguy1991 knowing them more makes it easier for me
			
			
			
			
			
		
			vetguy1991 · 51-55, M			
		
		@GalacticJourney same here
			
			
			
			
			
		
			Danez · M			
		
		I try making better eye contact instead of being obvious to stare at cleavage 😊
			
			
			
			
			
		
			GalacticJourney · F			
		
		@Danez lol that's good!
			
			
			
			
			
		
			SW-User			
		
		I'm like that too 😂😂😂
			
			
			
			
			
		
			GalacticJourney · F			
		
		@SW-User inguess that's why they call it similar worlds 😂
			
			
			
			
			
		
			plywood · T			
		
		It can be nerve racking when it goes on too long👀
			
			
			
			
			
		
			MikefromEP · 56-60, M			
		
		I look people in the eye
			
			
			
			
			
		
			adhane05 · 31-35, M			
		
		I only hate it when it's a girl I'm attracted too. Trying to keep your cool isn't always easy.
			
			
			
			
			
		









