Non Binary

So can anyone explain please ? I was born a male but always felt I am a female. My Body is somewhere in between so does this make me Male/Female Non Binary or just a freak !!!!

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sree251 · 41-45, M

What do you mean by "my body is somewhere in between"?

There are anomalies. Not all bodies are either male or female. If yours is not well-defined, then you may feel unsure about yourself.

You are already in your sixties. How did you you cope all those years in your relationships? Surely, you would have sorted things out by now.

natasha69 · 61-69

@sree251 I mainly just hid it all away or made excuses

sree251 · 41-45, M

@natasha69 Gender identity is not a big deal, in my opinion. First of all, you are not your body. If it is has no health issues, you should be able to live a good life gender free.

natasha69 · 61-69

@sree251 so is that non binary ?

sree251 · 41-45, M

@natasha69 No. Let's call it binary free. Getting stuck to being male or female is a neurosis, if you asked me.

natasha69 · 61-69

@sree251 that’s a new one I’m happy with Binary free !!

sree251 · 41-45, M

@natasha69 Many people are binary free. You don't have to be a male or female to start a small business or a big enterprise. Artists, musicians, and writers have satisfying lives without having to be either male or female.

natasha69 · 61-69

@sree251 I’m happy with that thanks

Spoiledbrat · F

@sree251 But physically speaking one is male female or intersex.

sree251 · 41-45, M

@Spoiledbrat I understand where you are coming from. Those of us with ambiguous physiques find it hard to fit into a binary sexual mindset. I have researched this, and there are some body types that are problematic and difficult to adjust to.

First of all, we are not our bodies, and our bodies are not us. We are psychological in nature while our bodies are not. The connection between mind and body is tenuous. Personally, I have come to dismiss the tie as unnecessary and irrelevant to practical life. Sexuality that is wholesome is not a conscious affair.