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Alison That's pretty crap, Nat. I think, whatever a person does they are still flesh, blood and family. My eldest daughter and I get on great and all, but there has been times in the past that we have really clashed....that I have been
that upset with her....but, down deep, she is still my daughter, y'know?
For all our failings, and our not following the paths that our family wants us to take, that's on them and their agenda...we live our lives through our own eyes....
That old saying 'treat others as you wish to be treated yourself', which is quite a religious one really, I think people lose the true meaning of that sentence. That of 'Put yourself in the other's position and treat them as they wish to be treated' NOT 'look at them from your perspective and treat them nice...'
I guess, from what you say, it's almost like 'not a boy, not a girl' and people just wonder what box to put individuals, like yourself, into.
I have 4 grandchildren; 2 white, 1 black and 1 oriental. My daughter says from time to time she gets odd looks and the children get odd comments just because her and her family don't fit into the correct box....
It's sad.....and I can understand how people can get pissed off with those reactions all the time.
Hugs to you, sweetie...
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SJD xx
