Trans struggles please give me advice!

I'm transgender as it said but I haven't come out to my father yet...growing up I have always been his little girl and he says I always will be but the problem is that I'm not a girl...I'm scared to tell him because I dont want to hate him if he says something and ends up ignoring that I'm trans I'm not old enough to move out (ik I'm a minor and I shouldn't be on a site blah blah blah but what haven't I seen at this point?) but I live with my mom currently, my father lives separately from us not for abusive reasons, I'm just not sure if coming out is the right thing to do yet but I need help from people to help me find more about whether I should come out or not