Trans struggles please give me advice!

I'm transgender as it said but I haven't come out to my father yet...growing up I have always been his little girl and he says I always will be but the problem is that I'm not a girl...I'm scared to tell him because I dont want to hate him if he says something and ends up ignoring that I'm trans I'm not old enough to move out (ik I'm a minor and I shouldn't be on a site blah blah blah but what haven't I seen at this point?) but I live with my mom currently, my father lives separately from us not for abusive reasons, I'm just not sure if coming out is the right thing to do yet but I need help from people to help me find more about whether I should come out or not

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Jessmari · 46-50

Realistically you won't be able to control or mitigate his reaction. It's up to you to know if you are ready to deal with whatever reaction that might be and how that effects your relationship with your father going forward. If you are not ready and it's not that important to tell him then hold off until you are.

Anon39 · 22-25

@Jessmari yea, Ive held off for nearly a year without telling anyone and I'm planning to come out over the phone so I do have some sort of control over the situation