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Once again I ask: what's the big deal about gender?

Someone just blocked me for pointing out a couple of facts regarding sex and gender (see below).

What I did not get an answer to, before being blocked, is why these facts are so aggravating to people who want to insist that there is only male sex / male gender and female sex / female gender, end of story.

If you and everyone you know are 100% male or 100% female then why would it bother you if other people see life differently? To the point of repeating over and over that such people don't exist or are mentally ill? (The rulers of the Soviet Union also labelled people they disagreed with as mentally ill...)

Sigh...

Fact # 1: Anatomically not everyone is male/XY or female/XX. Here's a rather neutral medical article about some of the many variations that exist: https://medlineplus.gov/ency/article/001669.htm

Fact # 2: There isn't a simple one-on-one match between physical sex and psychological or social gender. We don't have to talk about current trends and controversies at all; this goes way back in time in many part of the world. In India,the Hijras have been recognized as a third gender for centuries. Physically, they include intersex people, castrated people, and others. In quite a number of Indigenous North American cultures, going way back, there were people who were seen as neither male nor female, or both at the same time. Often these people had special spiritual roles, which is also the case for the Hijras. Those are just a couple of examples I happen to know something about.
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I don’t think it’s a big deal but many people do. It’s too bad more people can’t be open.
Punches · 46-50, F
@iamonfire696 My mouth has something to say about this. Yeah, that part of my face that landed me in SW jail. 😁

The men that have a problem with it are often womanizers and/or insecure about their own masculinity. Sometimes they are afraid they might accidentally end up in bed with a TG woman.
They do not stop and think - TG women cannot get pregnant so not like there is that risk.

The women who have a problem are often insecure about their femininity. They think trans women are going to take over women's sports or whatever. My old room mate's mom posts about that a lot of FB. I am sure her 350 pound 60 year old butt would really have a chance at athletic glory, gold medals, if some TG had not stolen it from her. 😄
SW-User
@Punches Please convey my thanks to your mouth for some of the most interesting comments in a while!
Punches · 46-50, F
@SW-User I was in SW jail for two weeks so during that time I had to choose carefully what to post plus I was out of town for one week and not on my phone much.
I was in some motel and some weird guy wandered the parking lot day and night but anyways...
SW-User
@Punches Was it some weird guy from SW? 😱
Punches · 46-50, F
@SW-User I kind of doubt it because for real, every time I stepped out to smoke, there he was.
There were a few weirdos there but that is okay cause I didn't spend much time in the room, just to do the four "S"s
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Punches I still wish more people would be open about this. I don’t understand why its such a big deal but you are right about the insecurity of women and the men being womanizers.
SW-User
@Punches What are the four S's?? The internet tells me they are "feeling safe, seen, soothed, and secure" but something tells me that isn't what you had in mind.
Punches · 46-50, F
@iamonfire696 It would be nice but you have whack jobs like the club Q shooter who make it harder for people to open up. That was all over the news, I was in that town last week.

@SW-User Shower, sh*t, shave, sleep.
SW-User
@Punches aww I was hoping "sex" would be in there!

That is terrifying that you were in the town so close to when that horror happened.
Punches · 46-50, F
@SW-User Sex - a couples times, alone. 🤭

It is unusual for something like that to happen in C.S. I mean yeah the town has it's "intolerant" and what not but not too many shootings. Where I live, shootings barely make the news but it is mostly gang related, like business disputes between gentlemen who do "independent pharmaceutical sales."
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Punches oh wow you were in that town. I hope you are doing okay 💖.
Punches · 46-50, F
@iamonfire696 Yeah it happened a couple days before I got there, it was all over the news.

Place I live has a 5 1/2 times higher murder rate per capita, granted most of ours involve gangs.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Punches That is crazy