Sexual confusion

I'm not sure if I'm bisexual. I was married, so I considered myself straight. Then I was with a woman for a few years and considered myself a lesbian. Since then, I've been with a man and consider myself straight. I feel that being bisexual means being equally attracted to men and women at the same time. When I was with a woman, I was only with her. Now, being with a man, I think of myself as being straight again. I don't know....

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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

There are such things as being sexual switches. It's not being bisexual as such.

That is different than being a switch aggressively. Which is what I am. I can be both dominant and submissive at different times.

There is well other factors. Another is being polyamorous

In all situations it's always best to be you. Accept yourself as you are.

Don't try to push yourself in any directions. Your confusion has more to do with being accepted in society.