Sexual confusion

I'm not sure if I'm bisexual. I was married, so I considered myself straight. Then I was with a woman for a few years and considered myself a lesbian. Since then, I've been with a man and consider myself straight. I feel that being bisexual means being equally attracted to men and women at the same time. When I was with a woman, I was only with her. Now, being with a man, I think of myself as being straight again. I don't know....

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ThePatientAnarchist · 61-69

I am older than you and could write with equal confusion about my sexuality, but I decided years ago that it isn't important to figure out. Our desires can change over time, or we can discover new desires that we didn't know we had. ~~ I think these labels like "bisexual" or "straight" can be useful if they help us understand and accept ourselves, but not if they limit us. -- It sounds like you are happy being with one person, and that might be more important to you than any of these labels.