Months ago my gf got jealous over one of my coworkers even though she's a lesbian

@JustGoneNow she told me she dated a guy back in high school but that was it 😅 she says she only likes girls now. Plus she has a mullet so I assumed she feels more like a male herself 😂

It's actually kinda common for "lesbians" to end up liking me so idk if it's them or me 🤷

@ChiefJustWalks orientation is confusing. I went through a stage too. lol

@JustGoneNow only time I've ever been confused is one time on shrooms when I was laying in bed with a homie 😂 we were trippin hard so we turned off the lights & just laid there in silence.
In my head I was like, "bro we're in bed together rn... Are we gay? 👀 This feels kinda gay"

Then later on he told me that he could sense my thoughts in that moment so he asked, "did you seriously think you were gay?" & I was like, "nah but I was definitely wondering for a minute 🤣"

@ChiefJustWalks I mean confusing for non straight people. Straight people usually seem pretty clear.

https://similarworlds.com/attraction/lesbian/3761800-My-journey-has-been-long-unclear-and-often-very

@JustGoneNow yeah I can see why it'd be confusing for sure. Doesn't seem easy to figure out when society makes you feel wrong or out of place for the way you feel.

My gf is bi & she's known since she was young. I just find it kinda cool that she chose me even out of allll the beautiful women out there 😮 girls are just better 😅

@ChiefJustWalks the numbers are not on her side, though. If we assume that as much as 6% of people are gay or bi… which I think may be a bit high. Then put 100 men and 100 women in a room. Of the 6 women that are bi or gay… let’s say half are gay which leaves us 3 and 1 of the is only bisexual but wouldn’t actually be in a relationship with a woman, so now we have 2… along with 95 say potential male mates. Most Bi girls end up with a guy. It’s just lack of opportunity. There’s a lot of pressure on potential Bi women that are actively looking for a same sex relationship too because we don’t have a lot of options for dating in general. That doesn’t mean that you aren’t great… as she also chose you out of all the guys too. Just saying same sex relationships are tough. Plus some gay women are scared to date Bi girls because they are afraid they don’t really like girls and will flip when the right guy comes along. Total bullshit but makes it no less a real fear for gay girls.