I Am A Crossdresser And I Like Me

I am finding it very hard to figure out where I fit in the grand scheme of the gender spectrum. I would say that I more fluid and don't hide myself that much no matter how I am dressed and present myself. I have tried to join communities online and in my area but it seems i somehow always say the wrong thing about myself that seems to make these community members pull away from me. The closest thing I can relate with right now seems to be a crossdresser, but even those communities pull away when i don't want to talk about my underwear every time I meet them. I'm just at the point where I'm going to do my own thing and associate with none. I prefer to walk a fine line of chaos and unpredictability and that is where I am comfortable. I'm getting tired of apologizing and finding new ways to explain who I am. Perhaps they can open their eyes and see for themselves who I am.

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epjoni

There's nothing wrong with being gender fluid -- people don't know what to expect, because there is no current stereotype for it. I'm glad you can move forward courageously and be who you are. Sometime society will catch up with all the gender variants and explanations will be the exception, rather than the rule - patience! That day will come!

Jessmari · 46-50

Perhaps one day, but I'm far too impatient to wait for society to come around.

epjoni

Many people resist change and seek security in the status quo. Others will vigorously defend out of date values and notions because they grew up with them. Society does change. It just takes time.