Do you find your attraction to one gender or another comes and goes in waves? Sometimes I'm super into women and then other times I find men really, really attractive.
Kind of like waves coming in and out or something, it's so bizarre. XD
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I once heard someone phrase bi sexuality as being like one person...but having two sexual spirits in your body. I was able to relate to that a bit...and it helped me figure things out.
There is a spectrum for sure. And I think it's normal to swing one way or the other at times.
Certainly the things I find attractive in a partner in terms of personality and character have very little change from gender to gender. But physically it's different. And the way I behave and felt romantically felt unique depending on the gender of said person...