Currently I still find it more enjoyable to share moments of closeness with women, intimacy feels easier because most of my relationships have been with women. My last relationship was with a guy though and as we spent more time together I found myself trying things that I was originally turned off by, mainly because of my thoughts about it which came from the things I heard from other people because when I tried them I enjoyed them from a guy. Like massage, I was hesitant to let him give me one in the beginning but after 5 mins I let that one go. The longer I date men the more I have become open to intimacy, it just takes time.