Developed a crush on another woman.

I have been straight all my life and I’m even married with a child. I have recently noticed that I developed a bit of a crush with another woman. She is lesbian and married to a woman. Of course I will not take any action on this crush but it’s the first time I have ever had a crush on a woman before. I noticed I get a bit of butterflies when she is about to come in the room. Has anyone else developed feelings for the same gender for the first time as an adult? Why is this?

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ZigMel · 56-60, F

Definitely yes.
I was married now we live together as “friends with benefits …occasionally”

I work for a Universitt and have to be strait-laced and professional even though we wear casual clothes. A mature student joined the team for work experience. A slim, fit, 1.6m tall black girl with tattoos and dreadlocks wearing leather waiscoat over a tight t-shirt and tight jeans. She was a gang member that wanted more opportunities.
Gos she was so hot and I was married at the time. What a shock it was that way.about another woman.

She flirted with me and I lived int- confused about whether I read out friendship right, but I had read it right and she kissed - passionately - me in a storeroom and I let her, wanted her to, maybe invited it.
Now I’ve not looked back.