Please Help

I am a questioning trans person who has not come out to my family yet. I’m still overthinking everything and the anxiety and depression from this is driving me over the edge. I just really need some advice on what to do next because i’m afraid one more bad decision or conversation-gone-wrong is seriously going to hurt me. I just need help.

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MiloMacFtM · 18-21, T

i was scared like that too... so before I told my parents i told my sister, she's my best friend and if she wasn't ok with it no one would be.

she helped me figure out what my parents might say about it all... and she held my hand when we told them.

it made it so much easier... do you have someone like that who could help you?

Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M

Your other post stated you were not confused yet here you say you are questioning. What is there to be anxious about, to be depressed over? Maybe it's because you aren't being truthful to yourself about why you really want to be another person

Dicey · 31-35, F

It's really hard to suggest something without knowing specifics, but I just wanted to say that I wish you the best and I hope you find a way to be at peace with yourself 💜

WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T

DM me hun, i will happily be a sounding board for your ideas and needs on figuring you out.

InactiveAccount

@WolfGirlwh0r3 Thank you.

WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T

@InactiveAccount everyone deserves to be heard and told they matter

Strict4u · 56-60, M

You should come out and be yourself they might not like it at first but they will except you after a little while

looping · 22-25

sounds like you need to wait on it. i got a feeling you feel the need to make it known that you're trans before you've even truly considered it. find out if you're trans on your own, then think about coming out.

Disgustedman · 61-69, M

So you're just posting b******* then? Because you posted before that you said you're not confused you're you know you're a transgender Ace (whatever the hell that means) and that you're some ABCD polyglot mix.

So please do us a favor s*** or get off the pot.

InactiveAccount

@Disgustedman Okay, first, you can stop being extremely homophobic and rude. As I mentioned in the previous post, I am questioning. For me, questioning my identity is doubting and overthinking. Some days, I feel like I know i’m trans and I express that. Others, I really, really don’t know. Please do not be so rude to people who ask for help because you don’t know what was left unsaid of posts.

Disgustedman · 61-69, M

@InactiveAccount Oh, homophobic? Dolt. That's the typical cry of idiocy. You're posting garbage, what, did wittle you want someone to pat you on the head and tell you bedtime stories? Damn you act like a child. Grow up for criminy sake.

InactiveAccount

@Disgustedman Okay, thank you, I do think that your user describes how you speak to people very well. You sound like a drunk white man who won’t grow up and thinks that everyone’s problems should be theirs and theirs alone.

Please check yourself and find a better way to speak to people because this really ain’t working.

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InactiveAccount

@bijouxbroussard ??

bijouxbroussard · F

@InactiveAccount Sorry. I misread and I apologize. You are the person…I misunderstood. You deserve to be supported, and to come out when and how you’re ready to. Do you have anyone you can confide in ? There are numbers to hotlines where you discuss concerns.

InactiveAccount

@bijouxbroussard Ah, thank you, I was really confused. No, I don’t have anyone, and I appreciate your suggestions.

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