When someone judgingly says that homosexual relationships are a choice...

I'm going to assume that person [i]chooses[/i] to only date the opposite sex, meaning they are attracted to both sexes. (Otherwise it wouldn't be a choice after all.)

That in turn means they must agree bisexuality is natural, and so we are on the same page. This way I can respect their [i]lifestyle[/i] of only engaging in heterosexual relationships. 😌

Top | Newest First | Oldest First

LilPrincess · 41-45, F

While I am 100 percent straight...i will not judge someone as it is not my place to. People can't help who they fall in love with.

Looking at my past choices i clearly have no room to😞

Gaiia · F

Well it's a choice in the sense that you can choose to not have a relationship with someone, but you can't really decide to who you're attracted to.

LostNForgotten · M

Nobody chooses who they fall in love with and only lucky people ever find that person.

Gaiia · F

@LostNForgotten some say you can control your feelings before they become love... Like you can control an infatuation and stop it if let's say you stop talking to someone, so it doesn't become love

LostNForgotten · M

@Gaiia That's true but I think mostly women have that ability. I've learned first hand that if a girl puts herself out there and you don't make a move she'll never have those feelings for you again.

NerdyPotato · M

@Gaiia true, but it only works to suppress feelings. I don't think you can create feelings that aren't there.

Ducky

Not many of the arguments against homosexuality are carefully thought through, but that always struck me as the most ridiculous.

Justferfuun1 · 41-45, M

Makes perfect sense to me. Thank you for seeing me. I've been choosing the heterosexual lifestyle my whole life and up until now I've always just blamed my wise old imaginary friend in the sky.

HootyTheNightOwl · 36-40

Sounds logical to me...

Add a comment...

71,736 people following
LGBTQ+

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support

New Post