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Losing hope as a infected gay.

Hello everyone. My friend has been a gay for the last 6years and the sad part is his ex who is also a gay infected him with Aids and he has been takinh RVs for the last 6years. Life hasnt been so easy for him since everyone is avoiding him and there has been times when he wants to commit suicide because he thinks his life has ended. And people always talk bad about him. I told him to move in with us and i cant tell my family that his infected. Sometimes he doesnt what yo eat food. Any advice on how to change his life so that he can know that he can live for long and he how to tell him not to miss taking his drugs. And why do people hate infected peoole..
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MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
I would also avoid someone with aids, not because I hate people who have aids, but because I don't want to get it from them 🤦‍♀️
Munirah256 · F
@MartinTheFirst i understand but am a straight woman and am not going to sleep with him so i dont think there is anyway i can get infected
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@Munirah256 Oh there definitely is.
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FragileHeart · 22-25, M
@MartinTheFirst
You can catch HIV through those fluids:
Blood
Semen (cum) and pre-seminal fluid (pre-cum)
Rectal fluids
Vaginal fluids
Breast milk

There is no way you could accidentally get infected. This misconception leads to HIV positive people being stigmatized.
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@FragileHeart When is infection not accidental? 🤦‍♀️ @Fable I love how you all just regurgitate common knowledge as if you have some kind of phd degree in hiv infections. There's plenty of ways that can happen for two people who don't have sex 🤦‍♀️
FragileHeart · 22-25, M
@MartinTheFirst Not through airbone infection 🤦‍♀️ I meant that if you are aware of a persons HIV positivity then you just gotta avoid getting their blood or the fluids I listed into your body and that can't happen by accident then.
Name some other ways then?
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MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@Fable Most people are extremely unhygienic, so literally anything could happen. Perhaps the heroin addicted, hiv infected person had a wank and didn't wash his hands 🐣
FragileHeart · 22-25, M
@MartinTheFirst If you have to come up with an extreme example such as this to justify your fear 🙄
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MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@FragileHeart ... someone having a wank and not washing his hands is an extreme scenario to you? lmao
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@Fable Getting HIV is evidence of you not being a very careful person... It says in the post that the person is addicted to drugs. You're all just wishful thinkers.
FragileHeart · 22-25, M
@MartinTheFirst Once outside the body, HIV usually can't survive for very long. Coming into contact with blood or semen that has been outside the body doesn't generally pose a risk for HIV transmission.
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@FragileHeart google "how long does hiv survive outside of the body" once
FragileHeart · 22-25, M
@MartinTheFirst No it doesn't
Drugs in this context = HIV pills
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@FragileHeart so thats your interpretation hu...
FragileHeart · 22-25, M
@MartinTheFirst "HIV can live outside of the body for as long as a few weeks, depending on the conditions. In most cases, though, the virus is inactive and unable to cause an infection within hours of being outside the body."
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MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@FragileHeart yeah i reread the drugs part and youre right
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@FragileHeart If youre living with the dude, then hours isnt very short
FragileHeart · 22-25, M
@MartinTheFirst "Coming into contact with blood or semen that has been outside the body doesn't generally pose a risk for HIV transmission."
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@Fable Exactly, all people make mistakes! Just make sure you dont do a mistake with an hiv person is my motto
FragileHeart · 22-25, M
@MartinTheFirst [quote] If you've come into contact with some blood or other body fluid that you think might contain HIV, it's understandable to have some concern about the possibility of HIV transmission. But you can rest assured that there haven't been any cases of HIV transmission through casual contact with blood or semen that has left behind on a surface. There haven't even been any cases after people have come across discarded syringes or needles. [/quote]
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@FragileHeart [quote] "Coming into contact with blood or semen that has been outside the body doesn't generally pose a risk for HIV transmission." [/quote]That's because people avoid HIV infected people 🤦‍♀️