How do you get rid of feelings

Fuuuck, I think me and my friend like the same person 🥲 I’m genuinely sad right now. Me and this friend of mine are pretty close so I don’t know how to feel about the whole thing. Jealousy? Anger? Sadness? It’s very mixed right now. I was planning to chat with my crush but I don’t know if I should do that anymore. Maybe I’ll just back off. I sincerely do like this person, but I don’t know of the heartbreak is worth it in the end. Any suggestions on how to get over someone?

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HootyTheNightOwl

Instead of thinking that you're into the same person, talk it out and make sure that you're both into the same person... then you can worry about what you are going to do after that once you have confirmation.

TexChik · F

Who is more important ? Your friend or a crush ? If it’s the friend the only way to act with integrity is to step aside , and then never tell a soul what you did. That is just something for you alone to know .

Penny · 46-50, F

may i suggest perhaps trying for a polyamorous situation then? lol. maybe the guy would like two girlfriends.

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

@Penny given the category it might not be a guy. But sharing can be caring if jealousy can be managed.

Penny · 46-50, F

@ViciDraco oh i didnt notice the category thanks

RosaMarie · 41-45, F

Have you asked your friend? It would be unfortunate if she actually didn't feel that way or if both of you backed off for this reason.

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

Distance and time - zero contact.

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

Talk it out with the friends. Don't just assume feelings. If they are there, you can offer to back down. A shame some things just don't get shared. 😅

Nihiless

No idea, but if you find out let me know immediately!

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