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Am I a Demi girl ?

Am i bc idk if I’m just my born gender (female) or if I’m considered a Demi-girl bc if someone calls me they then I won’t care but if someone calls me a he or him I will correct them by saying politely that I’m female am I a Demi girl or and I just female?
Bewitched · 22-25, F
Copied from wiki:
Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which an individual does not experience primary sexual attraction – the type of attraction that is based on immediately observable characteristics such as appearance or smell and is experienced immediately after a first encounter.

Just because you're okay with they/them pronouns being used does not mean you are demi.
@Bewitched that’s something different I’m not demisexual I’m omnisexual
you're lucky... i am much worse.

i am an alien in a human body. i don't care if they see me as female or male, but i am very offended by being seen as a human being. to be honest, i am offended even by being seen. as in my home dimension members of my race are invisible.

be tolerant and don't laugh, or i will cry.

p.s. the answer to your question is no.
@Mimi9loves2him
don't swear
that's how I feel
@fakable I’m just saying that you confused me I’m not saying anything bad
@fakable i have a querie🙋‍♀️

How do you be aware of each other's presence being invisible ?
Thespis · M
I think that's kind of an Apples and Broccoli situation there. Male, Female, Transgender, Non-binary, etc are gender identities. Demi or Demisexual is a sexual orientation usually used to mean someone who is only attracted to a person after growing a strong relationship with them. Other Sexual orientations would include, bisexual, homosexual, and heterosexual. Gender identity references the gender type a person identifies as whereas sexual orientation refers to who someone is sexually attracted to. So, back to you, if you were born with female genitals, and identify as a female today the most common way to label that would be cisgender, in which you identify with the gender you were born. Importantly, sexuality, gender, and identity are deeply individual so while we label groups with similar identities nothing makes for a one size fits all situation.
@Thespis very cunfuseing
@Thespis And I go by she they
Why does it matter???

The more time you spend trying to tie a label to anything, the less time you're spending embracing yourself for whoever or whatever you are - be you a boy, a girl or any mix of the above.

I'm much happier since I gave up that quest and accepted that I'm just me. Pronouns no longer matter as much to me, because I learned that the reason why I was so desperate to find what fits was because of pressure from others and not because identifying really matters to me.
@HootyTheNightOwl omg your to sweet 🥹🥹🥹
SW-User
@Mimi9loves2him and all you need be.
@SW-User I’m going to need a different explanation bc I’m very confused
SW-User
@Mimi9loves2him actually I misread Am I just ^ as I Am just ^.
So look down. If you dont have a dick.....you're a girl....period. There isnt but two choices....dick at birth....no dick at birth.
SW-User
@anythingoes477 wow. Harsh.
@anythingoes477 that’s not what I ment
@SW-User Reality checks are like that.
SW-User
I've never heard of a demi girl. But you're pretty cute.
SW-User
@Mimi9loves2him Don't call who cute?
@SW-User it’s not me in my pfp it’s my crush/ex gf/ bestie
SW-User
@Mimi9loves2him ah, that makes sense. How would you describe her?
Does it matter?

You are you, your emotions, thoughts, ideas and personality.

Most of the time i see myself just as me....nothing more🤷‍♀️ i think ive always felt this way.
Sometimes, very infrequently, i feel expressing my feminine side, but even then, its not the most important aspect of me, unless its a sexual situation.
Pronouns have never bothered me much, I've been called they/her and he, and im cool with any ....although the last one makes me laugh .

The body is only the material aspect of ourselves. Our mind is who we are.
And everyones mind has degrees of both feminine and masculine aspects.

Be you.
Besides, your friends will call you by your name, which is probably closer to your identity than any pronoun 🤗
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@AliciaDNK I’m very bad at explaining stuff
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@AliciaDNK idk what to say to that answer I thing that confused me more if I’m being honest

 
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