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CassandraSissy · 26-30, T
So, I've answered the question, being trans myself.....but got totally embroiled - down the rabbit hole - with them obviously being male to female...
...and then, a thought just hit me. They can be either sex, sweetie...
So, would I as a trans female date an individual who is a trans man (ie, used to be a girl...)?
I'm all about personality, in the main, and - I think - I'm a little pan-sexual myself. So a girl transitioning to a man? As long as they were happy, confident, not so self absorbed? I think so.
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...and then, a thought just hit me. They can be either sex, sweetie...
So, would I as a trans female date an individual who is a trans man (ie, used to be a girl...)?
I'm all about personality, in the main, and - I think - I'm a little pan-sexual myself. So a girl transitioning to a man? As long as they were happy, confident, not so self absorbed? I think so.
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FreeSpirit1 · F
@CassandraSissy As a Trans person can you explain something to me, if a person says they are now a woman but also says they are not gay so they only date women,wouldn't that make them gay? I'm thinking of Caitlyn Jenner. To me that is admitting they are only a woman visually, deep down inside he knows he's still a man, a heterosexual man.
CassandraSissy · 26-30, T
@FreeSpirit1 Oh, it's a little more complex than that, sweetie. There's what you identify AS and what you LIKE. I'm sorry but the whole Caitlyn Jenner thing left me right at the start - not in my circle of interests - but saying what she has said is just, to me, very silly and not really thinking things through.
For example..me! I identify as a woman, ok have a few 'extras' that woman don't have, but I have breasts, no body hair, dress as a woman, live as a woman, work as a woman etc, have a male fiancé, but find it very hard to comprehend the 'gay' tag on myself....because I don't see myself as male! Occasionally I find I have to use that tag, just because of laziness on the other person's part.
If I fancied a woman, then because I identify as a female then surely that'll be that I am a lesbian.
Silly!
Labels? Just good on food and clothing, darling....
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For example..me! I identify as a woman, ok have a few 'extras' that woman don't have, but I have breasts, no body hair, dress as a woman, live as a woman, work as a woman etc, have a male fiancé, but find it very hard to comprehend the 'gay' tag on myself....because I don't see myself as male! Occasionally I find I have to use that tag, just because of laziness on the other person's part.
If I fancied a woman, then because I identify as a female then surely that'll be that I am a lesbian.
Silly!
Labels? Just good on food and clothing, darling....
😜
FreeSpirit1 · F
@CassandraSissy it's not just Caitlyn Jenner it's just that Caitlin is the most famous one we ho has said it, I've seen it many times, a man will transition to a woman stay married to his wife because he said he's not gay, but if your an actual woman and stay married to a woman then you're gay. That's how I see anyway.
CassandraSissy · 26-30, T
@FreeSpirit1 Same here, sweetie! Totally agree!