Homosexuality: How did you know?

Sounds like a pretty stupid question, but how could you be 100% sure that you are, indeed, homosexual?

I'm currently debating this with myself. I've gone through straight-phases and gay-phases for many years. Sure, I could probably just slap the bisexual label on and be done but I'm now disgusted at the thought of heterosexual sex. The thought of lesbian sex excites me and gives me butterflies, without me even picturing a specific person. So... what gave it away, for you?

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LoneGirl97 · 26-30, F

I used to think I am pan, as in I could love anybody. For me it's never been a focus on sex and I will not get with someone who just wants to undress me. With that being said, I feel more attracted romantically to women I feel more easy about having an intimate relationship with them. I am sad that the majority around me feels the opposite as they are only interested in having relationships with men and women are just a fleeting sexual curiosity.