Homosexuality: How did you know?

Sounds like a pretty stupid question, but how could you be 100% sure that you are, indeed, homosexual?

I'm currently debating this with myself. I've gone through straight-phases and gay-phases for many years. Sure, I could probably just slap the bisexual label on and be done but I'm now disgusted at the thought of heterosexual sex. The thought of lesbian sex excites me and gives me butterflies, without me even picturing a specific person. So... what gave it away, for you?

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

AlyAngel · F

I always thought growing up id be a lesbian, it wasnt until recent years ive enjoyed sex with men. To this day, i still am very attracted to woman, but depending on the person i could be attracted to a man. I believe that has to do with past abuses & assults. I am attracted to selective men, but woman there really is no question if they make me tingle.