Homosexuality: How did you know?

Sounds like a pretty stupid question, but how could you be 100% sure that you are, indeed, homosexual?

I'm currently debating this with myself. I've gone through straight-phases and gay-phases for many years. Sure, I could probably just slap the bisexual label on and be done but I'm now disgusted at the thought of heterosexual sex. The thought of lesbian sex excites me and gives me butterflies, without me even picturing a specific person. So... what gave it away, for you?

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DragonFruit · 70-79, M

I thought of myself as bisexual for years, and I’ve been through my gay and straight “phases” as well (I’m married to a woman in what has been a sexless marriage for the last 16 years).
Often, I’d get drunk and horny and I’d look for gay porn or photos of nude men....and for a while, I’d say that I became gayer when drunk.
Eventually I came to the realization that, while I can appreciate the beauty of a woman’s body, I’m not really sexually attracted to women and don’t really want to have sex with women....i’m onlt sexually attracted to/wany o have sex with men.