unsure of sexuality

i've been attracted to women my entire life, but I genuinely don't know whether or not I like men? i feel like I just like feeling wanted versus wanting to actually be with a man...labels don't really matter but at the same time can't help but wonder if I'm bisexual or a lesbian

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JRVanguard · 26-30, M

That’s very relatable and I get it can be very confusing
For me personally I’ve also always been attracted to women but have had a handful of men I’ve been attracted to as well
I think the best thing for me was just accepting that there were men I could be attracted to and stop trying to rationalize if I was straight vs bisexual
As you said labels don’t really matter and in this case they’re doing more harm than good because there doesn’t have to be some set label for everyone and you can drive yourself crazy trying to put yourself in a group

bbyliv · 22-25

@JRVanguard that's a really great way of looking at it, thank you! :)

JRVanguard · 26-30, M

@bbyliv Happy to help🤗
Cause trust me I know it’s something I struggled with for a while so if I can just get you to the conclusion I came to without the years of headaches I’m happy to do so😅💙

mayguy · 51-55, M

@bbyliv JR gave you excellent advice. It certainly seems you are (in the very least) 'bi-curious' to use the right phrase. :)