unsure of sexuality

i've been attracted to women my entire life, but I genuinely don't know whether or not I like men? i feel like I just like feeling wanted versus wanting to actually be with a man...labels don't really matter but at the same time can't help but wonder if I'm bisexual or a lesbian

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JRVanguard · 26-30, M

That’s very relatable and I get it can be very confusing
For me personally I’ve also always been attracted to women but have had a handful of men I’ve been attracted to as well
I think the best thing for me was just accepting that there were men I could be attracted to and stop trying to rationalize if I was straight vs bisexual
As you said labels don’t really matter and in this case they’re doing more harm than good because there doesn’t have to be some set label for everyone and you can drive yourself crazy trying to put yourself in a group

bbyliv · 18-21

@JRVanguard that's a really great way of looking at it, thank you! :)

JRVanguard · 26-30, M

@bbyliv Happy to help🤗
Cause trust me I know it’s something I struggled with for a while so if I can just get you to the conclusion I came to without the years of headaches I’m happy to do so😅💙

mayguy · 46-50, M

@bbyliv JR gave you excellent advice. It certainly seems you are (in the very least) 'bi-curious' to use the right phrase. :)

GivetheDevilHerDue · F

Follow your heart give all your felling free reign let them lead you with out shame let your hungers rule your being!!

Memike · 26-30, M

be your self and enjoy your self. Im a gay man and it took years for me to accept my self

DragonFruit · 61-69, M

When I was your age, I thought I was straight...but at 24 I had sex with another man for the first time.
For a couple of years, I had exclusively gay sex, and thought of myself as gay.
I now consider myself bisexual, and I have had sex with more men than women in my life. Sometimes I think I might be more gay than bisexual.
Being unsure of one's sexuality is not uncommon.

StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

Sounds suspiciously bi.

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