when I was in rehab I was at one of these meetings

And this woman told her story. She came home one day to find her husband with another man. She divorced him.but then blackmailed him for money to keep his secret. Like wtf. He was probably terrified everyday he was with you. And then you blackmail him for money? That's just freaking mean. I had to listen to her story twice. Cause she was a guest speaker at two different aa meetings. She was proud. Of ruining his life. What a terrible person 😑