Are there any women who are genuinely attracted to crossdressers or transgender women who wont try to make them feel ashamed for who they are? If so ?

I have had a life time love of wearing woman's lingerie. My first wife couldn't accept that and we got a divorce. She even told my family and friends. My current wife is very supportive and we would enjoy it together until her health started to fail. After my divorce from my first wife I was very open with the women I met and most of them were ok with it. I live in a very conservative small town now and have to be pretty careful who I let know.