Help
Can anyone give me some advice? I really enjoy doing girly things. I have had thoughts of wanting to become a girl. I just need some advice if anyone is willing to help.
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tatysuma · 31-35, F
Ok first don't read biankakelly's comment it's redicoulous. First of all becoming any gender you are currently not is a big big step it's something you should be really thoughtful about because there's really no going back. That being said there is nothing wrong with wanting to do girl stuff, there are lots of men out there that like girl stuff but they dont want to change there sex or anything their fine with the sex they are they just like what they like theres nothing wrong about it. Before I go on I have to ask what do you define as wanting to do girl stuff?
And look don't let anyone tell you that your less of a person for liking what you like, as long as your not harming anyone in the process or torturing someone your ok "unless that person is under an agreement with you to do that" than its fine
And look don't let anyone tell you that your less of a person for liking what you like, as long as your not harming anyone in the process or torturing someone your ok "unless that person is under an agreement with you to do that" than its fine
Jacey17 · 22-25, T
I like to dress up as much as I can. I tend to keep my hair long so I can do whatever to it. I tend to shave my legs even though I'm horrible at it, also tend to shave my underarms. I tend to paint my nails as much as I can. I tend to keep my toenails painted because I can hide it. I've tried to do my makeup but that didn't go to well. I like to do as much as I can thats "girly" it just kinda feels better.
tatysuma · 31-35, F
@RandomGuyMaybe: there is nothing wrong with what you want to do, a lot of it is actually normal. I know men, that shave their arms, legs, pits. Some just don't like the feel of hair. I know of few people that paint their nail just because they want to. There are a quiet a few men out their that consider them selves as straight but love to cross dress because they like it, but they have girlfriends, others are gay and like to cross dress but do not want to change there sex from male to female.
But regardless of whom you like male, female or both it doesn't really matter. Before you can enter any kind of relationship you have to understand yourself. There's nothing wrong with you do what makes you feel good, play around with things give it time. Just because you like girly things doesn't mean anything. You have to ask yourself after you've given your self time to explore and find out what you like to do and not what others expect you to like. (This is what I do and should do more often on other topics) look in the mirror and ask yourself what do I see looking back at myself? do I like what is looking back at me? What do I not like with what is see, what do I like, and how can change, ask your self do I want to be something other than what I am right now, boy or girl? Have you told your parents what your going through FyI sorry this is so long.
But regardless of whom you like male, female or both it doesn't really matter. Before you can enter any kind of relationship you have to understand yourself. There's nothing wrong with you do what makes you feel good, play around with things give it time. Just because you like girly things doesn't mean anything. You have to ask yourself after you've given your self time to explore and find out what you like to do and not what others expect you to like. (This is what I do and should do more often on other topics) look in the mirror and ask yourself what do I see looking back at myself? do I like what is looking back at me? What do I not like with what is see, what do I like, and how can change, ask your self do I want to be something other than what I am right now, boy or girl? Have you told your parents what your going through FyI sorry this is so long.
Jacey17 · 22-25, T
I haven't really told anyone.
tatysuma · 31-35, F
I know its hard but at lest this is a start. At some point there will be a person in real life that you share this with. They will be there to physically support you. You might be suprized at how well people will react to what you have to say. But everything happens in its own time. Just don't feel like your any worse or different than other people you deserve what everyone deserves. Sorry everything I write is so long trying to keep it short