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Do you find being Bi conflicting?

Do you desire what you don't have at the moment?
daddybloke · 46-50, M
it can sometimes but my wife is very understanding and has always known i am bi i am not promiscuous and have two male FWB i play with only these 2 more often than not she will join in with us and enjoys watching us fuck
@daddybloke How wonderful she must love you very much to not only want you to have the pleasure you desire but to find pleasure in watching you!... Or she is just a twisted lady with is very cool too!!Hahahahah
daddybloke · 46-50, M
@SarawithouttheH i think the latter is probably closer to the truth horny,twisted lady
@daddybloke Hahahahah i like her already LOL
JayneA · 36-40, F
No there is no doubt, no time for ambiguity of thought, when you suddenly see that person, the chemistry is immediate, I know she is Dominant, she knows my submission will happen. There is no conflict within the mind just pure anticipation of what may happen and how far my limits will be pushed.
@JayneA so nice (and hot) to hear that you know yourself and what you need!
VisionQuest · 51-55, M
There was a time when I had a female fwb and a male fwb. It was great!
I don't desire men emotionally, it is all about the sex. That being said, I have no problems with monogamy. I may occasionally masturbate to gay porn, but I don't feel an urge to cheat.
@VisionQuest You have had your experiences Glad you are comfortable with who you are and you having your fwb kind hot Hahahahha
Remmy · F
I did but I have it sorted out now
@Remmy Good for you a task I have never mastered LOL
Rubytuesdays · 90-99, F
@Rubytuesdays That sounds sad! Seems to take a great bit of joy out of life!😕
rachelsj · 22-25, F
BlueVeins · 22-25
No, to me it's no more conflicting than being monogamous.
@BlueVeins Oooo interesting perspective!
No, not conflicted unless the person Im with at the time has issues with it. You enjoy what you enjoy.
@TallMtnMedic that is abut for some of us it is hard for us o understand or explain our desires😔
@SarawithouttheH Definitely!
@SarawithouttheH I get that, believe me. Thats why you find litte groups, or 1 or 2 people that can offer insight and support. So you're not alone.
cd4259 · 61-69, M
Always greener on the other side. I just want to take down the fence and enjoy both sides
cd4259 · 61-69, M
At times very much so as I want, desire and need both sexes
No, I pretty much got it figured out.
@BohemianBabe good for you, you must be a quick study LOL
@lonelybigirl I had to practice a lot.
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@Redrocket7611 Happy to hear you had such a wonderful friendship , you are so right to hold on to someone that obviously loves you! May I ask if you ever told her about you friend?
Redrocket7611 · 46-50, M
@SarawithouttheH no i havnt it was a thing we did b4 we ever met
@Redrocket7611 understandable , do you think she would think less of you?
Killer · 26-30, F
Nah, it's the shit.
@Killer could to have to courage and conviction for your hungers n desires!!🙂
Danerol · 36-40, M
I want to explore it more but just still early days
@Danerol everybody deserves to be them selves and revel in what they long for!
Danerol · 36-40, M
@SarawithouttheH this is true but I just can't in my current situation and I think it's playing on me mentally a bit
enjoyingitnow · 61-69, M
@Danerol it will definitely rock your world and put you in hunter mode. Enjoy
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@nadine It's not as easy as people think!
melbeacher · 61-69, M
Yes sometimes !
bert199 · 51-55, M
I’ve been admittedly, feeling a little bicurious lately. But I suppose I don’t find it conflicting. I’d rather just have it all :-)
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
@bert199 why's that?
@bert199 Hmmm bicourious lately? have you ever acted on your impulses ? have any experiences in your youth you remember fondly?
bert199 · 51-55, M
@SarawithouttheH I have not, and it would be a first.
theoldschoola · 46-50, M
No. I don't really have any desire to do anything with a guy on a cosistent basis. I will ALWAYS be sexual with a woman.
@theoldschoola not on a consistent basis but once in a while ,I like that!😊
theoldschoola · 46-50, M
@SarawithouttheH yes maybe once every few years or so I get the urge to have my mouth full.
oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M
not at all ,,, my wife does not know as she does not want to know of my sex life as she no longer wants to enjoy ,,, we are just friends now ,, and my new life is good ,,
oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M
@SarawithouttheH oh it did and good one ,,,
@oldercanuck1 Message me if you like
oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M
theoldschoola · 46-50, M
No conflict. I enjoy 1 thing with guys but don't want to date or marry one. Women are just so fucking gorgeous and turn me on far more.
@theoldschoola Hahahaha Naughty boy I can more that almost feel the hunger in your words!
oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M
Was when i was in the military but not now ,,
@oldercanuck1 Imagine i was tough , friends and comrads but with hidden feeling deep down!! you did well!
oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M
@SarawithouttheH thank you yes it was not permitted back in the day ,, you had to be careful or not at all ,, not like today ,, open and enjoy ,,
Danerol · 36-40, M
Danerol · 36-40, M
@lonelybigirl this is true and I feel more people should be confident and comfortable in who they are and stop trying to be someone else just to please someone
@Danerol That is well said!
Danerol · 36-40, M
@SarawithouttheH thank you
No but my dad did. It was kept a family secret for far too many years.
retiredbum · 56-60, M
In the beginning yes, now I'm very comfortable with myself
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Nope!
Yeah I know it's late lol
@ozgirl512 good for you!!
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
SW-User
Honestly no
SW-User
@SarawithouttheH Indeed. Plus being in constant chastity helps.
@SW-User Hmmm what ever works for you long as it fulfills you wants and dreams
SW-User
@SarawithouttheH Of course, I have to be a good gurl!
doodatt · 61-69, M
No, focus is alot more on guys now.
@doodatt glad you have found what fulfills your desires!🙂
FireFox · 26-30, F
No not really
@FireFox I am very happy for you! not always easy to feel comfortable in your own skin!
antonioioio · 70-79, M
What man doesn't 🤔
@Babydoll4life sorry hope it works out for you!🙂
Babydoll4life · 22-25, F
SW-User
Very much so!!
@SW-User just when you think you may have found what you craved Life messes with you again taunts with something that looks sooo good hahahahah
LandOfOz · 61-69, M
@LandOfOz thank got I thought I was alone LOL
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
@lonelybigirl you're DEFINITELY not!!🤗🤗
meat18 · 56-60, M
@Pdad49 why?
SnipingSvelte · 26-30, F
not in my mind, and not with people who know me well
whatever i desire i go after, i won't limit myself to only 1 partner
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
@SnipingSvelte beautifully said
@SnipingSvelte hopefully when you find someone you are interested in, you discuss this, get agreement and set boundaries. Too many times people try to hire. The road is littered with many wrecked relationships due to secrets....
Indy74 · 46-50, F
My hubby understands my needs being bi, but, I just don't act on it at the moment. I have no interest.
SW-User
I find what I desire in the people I desire if that makes sense.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
I am not, but I can see why that might happen.
Nah, I love whomever I love. There are no rules
meat18 · 56-60, M
always wanting sex fun w men and women!
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
No - I'm not actively pursuing anything romantic so it really doesn't matter whether I get something or I don't. I'm bi because I've tried m, f, and mf and all have their good and bad points. Sex and romance doesn't rule my life anymore.
@butterflybaby75 Awww with you had more passion in your life
Filipinalez · 18-21, F
I was always lesbian from when i can remember but from what my bi friends say they're fine with it
@Filipinalez OMG I love redheads they add color t the world fair skin red hair is soo sexy! Did she want to experiment of did she run away?
Filipinalez · 18-21, F
@SarawithouttheH Well she was kinda down so i listened ,offered a hug and sneaked in a tickle and had her giggling then she kissed my cheek thanking me. We did sneak out one night and just held each other and kissed and hugged but didnt dare go further at the staff were omnipresent
@Filipinalez such a sweet story😊 may I ask how old you guys were?
fortycreek · M
nope, im fine with it!
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
Nope I’m straight
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
Somehow, I kinda keep them separate, some days more difficult than others, but yes there is a definite conflict, mostly mental for me
Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T
Im a trans who only dates woman. Im never going to be into guys..
wunderluv · 51-55, M
Why would it be conflicting?
@wunderluv It is not easy for some!
3Dogmatic · 46-50, M
I prefer to be considered greedy.
@3Dogmatic Hahahha I like that , hunger is a good thing Hahaha

 
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