For anyone with children: please, PLEASE set up a will and other key documents in case something should happen to you.

I have been keeping my kids invilved in these things as well. I am open and honest about end of life care, organ donation and anything else that they may have to deal with. I want my passing to be as easy on them as possible so they can do what they need to, whatever that is.

It's important to discuss these things with your kids so they know what to do when the time comes. If you don't prepare them, it just makes it harder for them.

I intend to let them see the will and everything. They have been able to give me their input as to what they would prefer and I have no reason not to take any of that into consideration.

Nothing about the end of your lofe should be a secret to those who will be required to deal with your aftermath. It should always be an open and honest conversation with them.

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. What you’re saying is so true, and people don’t talk about how much this kind of stress complicates grief. Thank you for speaking up about it. Take care of yourself my love. 🫂♥

Let me tell you what i did. i have a list of all of my assets, passwords , bank acct number, iinsurance policies, phone numbers etc. my finance guy took one look at it and said i better keep it safe. i could be wiped out immediately. i also left my computer password. i have a trust set up and i have lists of where i want my stuff to go. i have my obituary written, my burial and plot paid for. all they have to do is stick me in the ground.

I’m so sorry for your loss! I imagine that would make it difficult to fully concentrate on grieving.

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