Why is it so hard to make friends here?

It can be sometimes but don't give up. Just keep posting and replying to posts.

Sometimes you have to send messages to a few people before finding those you really want for friends.

as a crazy cat lady, I love your profile photo

Nothing is real. Nothing is similar.

Because this site is anonymous playful banter, which has a lot of catfish and fakes, so everyone guard is up or they're not taking anything seriously

For us we have nothing in common sorry. If you are willing to be friends overcome your shyness

Because everyone has his or her own scheme?

It's not a nice place.