I don’t know I’m torn

I think I’m so turned off with the thought of dating right now I feel like If I find someone I do but it isn’t a priority. It’s so exhausting starting over with someone new being like “ so what do u do for fun “ “what’s ur favorite food “ like I’ve been through this before … like let’s get to know each other a different way . I just don’t have the energy to start over right now and for what ? For it to work for a little then it just end then having to heal from it I’m good . But at the same time I wanna be loved and cuddled ..the thought of meeting someone sounds exciting but I don’t wanna waste all my energy onto someone who will leave my life fast

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LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

I've never gone through the dating scene like a normal person. I've never had that experience. I'm afraid of it, honestly. Especially now. But I'm also afraid of spending the rest of my life alone.

WillaKissing · 56-60, M

@LordShadowfire I have been in it and done that from marriage through divorce and raising the kids on my own thing post retiring from my career.

I will take being alone over being miserable and unmatched life and lifestyle wise. No more will I give and give and give and then to be denied by my mate for my needs and wishes.

Never!