A stupid thought
People who tell the lonely to "just wait and someone perfect will come along" never seem to have to wait very long themselves 🤔
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hartfire · 61-69
At 66, I've never heard anyone say that, but it's obviously nonsense.
- No one is perfect.
- Perfection doesn't and cannot exist; it's an idea that mutates its definition according to context, perception, beliefs and experiences.
- Waiting doesn't work.
- One needs to be proactive in order to find a possible partner.
- Developing a good relationship takes constant work on the part of both.
- We get the best chance of success with someone who shares similar values, goals and tastes. A few differences in interests can keep things lively and fresh.
- No one is perfect.
- Perfection doesn't and cannot exist; it's an idea that mutates its definition according to context, perception, beliefs and experiences.
- Waiting doesn't work.
- One needs to be proactive in order to find a possible partner.
- Developing a good relationship takes constant work on the part of both.
- We get the best chance of success with someone who shares similar values, goals and tastes. A few differences in interests can keep things lively and fresh.