Perfect !! Like I stated above it's just a word, nothing else...it's a pipe dream, or better yet nothing more than someones opinion of something. Attempting to change another to make them "perfect", (especially someone they care about) is selfish and heartless. It usually means that individual isn't happy within their own skin, and they believe by changing those around them, it will make them feel better about themselves, but then find it only makes them feel worse.