It depends. If tears come out as soon as you slap him. He’s a sissy.
If on day-7 after losing a relative, you catch him shedding a tear, it’s a sign of someone who knows how far his strength can only take him and allows himself to let go for minute. It’s a sad and at the same time very humbling thing to watch.
Men who never cry, live with their agony inside. They’re not stronger, their tears just pour from outside in.