Just A Thought On Femininity.....

...from this lil ol' T-Girl/Trans or whatever you fancy calling me here.

For some, I gather, they have this whole thing about wearing ladies underwear and masturbating. For underwear, please insert (now, don't be naughty!) any form of fetish on clothing/footwear. Fine. Whatever. It's what you enjoy, then go for it. Not for me though, sweetie.

For others it's all about being subservient to other males - the so-called beta male - and to strong females. Again, nice but that doesn't do it for me either.

For some it's all 'bout the makeup and the hair, and whilst that is true to a degree - one does have to pass, right? - I don't think it makes up the big picture.

Then there's sex. The perception is, from people that I have chatted to, that T-Gurls are all randy degenerates. Could be true, I dunno. Could be just the stereotype.

My thoughts have always been much more deeper. Indeed, feeling a little lost/out of place/anxious (delete as appropriate) of being the male self. Just having no peace of mind; of worry and confusion. Then, finally, putting some of the pieces together to find the path (the quest?!?) to find what makes me happy. Femininity is more, I think, about a state of mind - I'd say 50% - and less with the outside, peripheral stuff.

Sure, hormones, electrolysis, makeup, clothing, deportment lessons, speech lessons, hair dye all have their part to play but I feel it's about that inner calm, that confidence in oneself (that might be a tad fragile at times) that makes the individual a female and feminine.

Sex? Fine, but it's not the reason that I put on my face and clothing and go to work as a woman, y'know? It has to be something more. Something substantial.

So, my thoughts. Your thoughts?

😘

Cass x