I don't know about you, but one of my biggest pet peeves is having certain labels slapped on me because of my views and opinions. I am a human being, thank you 🤷♀️.
I think people find a little too much comfort in labeling others. It’s seen as an easy way to cast others to the side and feel higher on the imaginary power totem pole without having to look at themselves for the real reasoning for why they feel the need to label in the first place. I’ve labeled others without thinking twice, and I’ve definitely been labeled by those who did the same. It’s not the greatest thing to be on either end of and it’s a part of the whole judging thing that can get out of hand if we don’t see it for the level of hatred, ignorance, failures within ourselves that it actually feeds into.
It's at least subconsciously intentional to box you into a rigid set of ideological categories. Everybody talks about 'thinking outside the box' but precious few believe in it. Also, once they stick that label on you, they never again hear what you're saying or see what you're doing.
@ASLAN Now you wait just one damn minute. I don't take charity because I don't need charity. I earned this fair and square. And, you know what, mister? You know, I know it, and that little bottle you call courage knows it.
@ASLAN OMG. You have so much anger. You really need my help.
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I'm called a hippie often enough and I don't mind. It's when people want to stuff you into certain ideals with labels...usually in negative ways that really get to me and sometimes, the people get to know that. 😈 Antivaxxer, vaxxer, selfish, responsible, stupid, smart.... the list just keeps going... and I really don't care until people start hating and saying nasty things about others. That's just nasty to wish horrible things on others or to call them unkind names. Some labels are just part of daily life and that's fine when done with good and decent intentions. Labels can be another form of stuffing people into groups and seeing them all the same.
We have that in common. I don't have to try to not label anyone, I just don't do it. People are people. And we all have the same value. ALL of us. No exceptions.
Humans have a fascinating need for order of some type even when they say they don't. Should anyone feel the urge to classify me he/she is hereby notified of my total disinterest.
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Yes, I tend to avoid letting people get to know me because I'm sick and tired of being labeled. No, I'm not necessarily what they're thinking. I'm not a stereotype.
Having been labeled, (except by my own family) my entire life I'm pretty much over it. I take life much less seriously. Call me a queer and watch as I NOT cry.
@SW-User [b]Welcome.[/b] I took my age off because I tired of people calling me an “old bat” and dismissing my opinions. I wasn’t ashamed of my age, just tired of it being a handy target for folks with no other argument to my points.
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@bijouxbroussard Same -- I got called old, ugly hag etc. I also took my age off due to receiving a number of PMs from men who claim they're into "mature" women.😑 Since I blanked out the profile, I don't get as many nasty PMs.