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Problems with mother in law

THIS CUNT!!! 🤣 so she drives four hours down here, gets a hotel, to help us do laundry and "visit". Well her son is working til late evening so she really only has me and little one to visit with. So why would she come to my RV, and get passive aggressive with me right off the bat? Why? She knows I don't hold back when I'm upset. First, she gets here, I'm being really nice and chatty. She cuts me off mid sentence and starts on small comments about the dog or something. I let it slide. I tell her she can walk little guy to park, I'll stay here and mop floor. I very specifically requested she don't let him climb the rope ladder to the big slide (his dad taught him that yesterday much to my dismay 😫). 1. It's super fucking high and you can't hold onto him up there or easily get up there with him. Way too high. No stairs. 2. His rain boots which he needs to wear today are too big for him and it makes climbing a rope ladder a bit unsafe 3. He's a clumsy toddler. 4. It rained most of day and everything is slippery

She comes back, I go outside, she's all "oh he climbed up to the big slide 3 or 4 times hahaha".

What the fuck lady!? I did not let this one slide, needless to say 😑.

Me very mad. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, if she thinks it's fine for him, I said no. I'm his mom. It scares me.

The fucking cunt. When I'm mad, I don't hide it. I confront it. And either I'm mad at someone or not, and they will know. I hate passive aggressivity and head games. F that shot
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Cuda6868 · 51-55, M
I’ll send you a message tomorrow morning over coffee okay? Just some advice from one parent of 3 to another parent, if you’re okay with that?
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@Cuda6868 certainly. Would love that thank you.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
I don't blame you.
Not only does she need to respecf your home and rules as a guest, you're also the mother of your kid, and besides the respect factor have valid concerns.

In short:

To my husband's parental unit:

If you ever disrespect me in my home again, or place my child in danger, I will send you to Shady Pines. Good day.
No matter what she thinks. She's at your home and you specifically asked her not to. She needs to be respectful
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@Bexsy exactly, and when it comes to someone's baby, you don't do that and get away with it. It won't be forgotten. It's sad because she's someone I trusted quite a bit. But after today I jsut see a different side, and I think that trust has diminished.
Ducky · 31-35, F
Sounds like you have a valid reason to be upset to me. You requested something that was well within reason and not asking too much at all. Of course she can just laugh it off because she's not the one who has to watch out for that full-time. I'd be pissed off too.
caccoon · 36-40
How disrespectful of her. 😔

I am furious for you.

I am so glad your son is safe, and I hope she leaves soon and doesn't visit often. 😣
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@caccoon thank you 🙏 I was shaking mad. I hate that I feel like I can't trust her with my wishes for my son now. We don't see her a whole lot these days, so, that is good I guess. Apparently we wouldn't be able to be around each other any more than we currently are anyway 👀 lol
caccoon · 36-40
@Notsimilarreally yeah absolutely. The main priority is his safety, and it's unbelievable she would not see that

😔😔
BamPow · 51-55, M
You’re the parent. She is not. That should be the end of the story. I’d be pissed off in that scenario, too.
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@BamPow this… it doesn’t matter if the rope was 2ft off the ground or 15ft… she (the parent) said no, and the grandmother overstepped boundaries.

It’s unacceptable.
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@WaryWitchWandering @BamPow exactly how I feel as well. Thanks for validation guys. I'm not feeling an ounce of guilt today even after calming down. Feelings over her behaviour have not changed, I'm certain I'm in the right. 😐
Allelse · 36-40, M
Apache indians were superstitious about talking to their mother in laws, they wouldn't do it!!! They had the right idea.
Allelse · 36-40, M
@Notsimilarreally My mother in law harboured a pedo and chose his side when it all came out.
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@Allelse dear lord. That's a very sad situation
Allelse · 36-40, M
@Notsimilarreally As evil as the day is long,
bookerdana · M
Some people just don't know how to act around other people;try to ride it out
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@Notsimilarreally Spot on, I'd say.
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@NudasPriest thanks. Forgot to crop out name. Please don't stalk her, anyone who saw it! 🤣
@Notsimilarreally Anger does that sometimes. I don't have the tech to stalk her anyway.
HiYou12 · 51-55, M
Not a very respectful woman. Just so you know which you probably already do, she does not respect you
YoMomma ·
Disrespectful of her 😒
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@YoMomma very. Not appreciated 😐
YoMomma ·
@Notsimilarreally yeah 😤
She drove all that way to piss you off and succeed
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@Nunlover that's exactly how it felt!
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Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@Nunlover well her oldest son, his ex wife who is still close with the sister and has kids who are MILs grandchildren, they don't speak to her and haven't for years. I don't know why but now I'm really curious. I kind of assumed it had to do with her religion, jehova witness, and it being cult like and near abusive in ways in many people's eyes to deprive children of things and shun people and so on. It's horrible in ways. But now I wonder if it wasn't more personal. Getting to know her better and seeing this side of her I'm definitely thinking so.
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
Omg ! Holy shit ! Unbelievable....
Put a sign on the front door when she visits...
'MY HOUSE --- MY SON --- MY RULES'
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@Notsimilarreally It is intentional and seemed out of spite. It's a poor reflection on you as a grandparent if you let those negative feelings you have for someone override the protective instincts you should have over your grandchild.
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@DrScissorhands exactly! I understand her reasons for feeling a little spiteful toward me after what Caleb and I have gone through. But don't act like that to me. I will not let it slide after a certain point ESPECIALLY involving my son. 😑
@Notsimilarreally It's a terrible thing to do. Good on you for standing up for him. Very reckless behavior indeed
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