why needy people are often rejected

[c=003BB2][i]i'm not needy, maybe only for love from a romantic partner, that's all....but what i have observed in life in my own experience and others as well....when you come across as too needy, if you show that....women reject you and you never hear from them again...why is this? from what i understand, neediness is a natural mortal thing and is part of being a human being.

so are you supposed to fully hide neediness and repress it, if you want relationships? why can't you just be yourself and be accepted for what you are?[/i][/c]