Aging sucks

Especially as a girl, why do we have a shorter life span when it comes to youth and looks. There so much pressure to remain youthful and attractive especially where I live. It’s not fair that once women hit 30 we are told we hit the “wall” and we are invisible and are longer seen as options for men. Its scary aging and I wish I could stop it now. I feel like men have until at least early 50s to find a partner and are still seen as attractive in society maybe not youthful but still valid in that aspect.