How do I get an obgyn to agree to a hysterectomy?

In all seriousness after this baby is born I want it all gone I’ve been consistent with that conclusion for years on once I’m done having babies I want it all gone.. I work with a midwife for pregnancies and well womens exams but I need an obgyn for this part.. I’ve gone over the pros and cons already I just need to convince a doctor that I’ve made the right choice for me

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TheRealBarbossa · 36-40, T

Idk what it's like where you are, but in Norway it's extremely hard to get it done.

Example: a friend of mine in her 40's has 3 adult kids (20+ years old), doesn't want any more kids, has been (volunteeraly) single since the last kid was 2, is a disability pensioner bc of massive back pains, and has extreme and paralyzing cramps every single months.

She got denied the surgery because, according to her MALE doctor "she might change her mind about having more kids"

MommaBear · 26-30, F

@TheRealBarbossa I’ve tried to get sterilization before and they told me no for the same reason but I feel like (now) 6 is enough I’m done my body can’t handle another after this

TheRealBarbossa · 36-40, T

@MommaBear Womens health isn't taken seriously at all, because there are hardly any studies done on female anatomy throughout history.

I may identify as a man, but I've lived in a womans body 39,5 years and counting, so I know first hand the horrible treatment and understanding of womens issues.

I will continue to speak out about it to spread awareness until my dying breath.