Is it normal to not have sex with a person or yourself?

We all know of being addicted to sex weather its people or your hand.I know there's a balence that is good for you and your state of mind.But what do people do that dont have sex think about ,feel or dont they feel anything .Maybe its like a person who doesnt like sports ,they dont care about it.i wonder if they have a wet dream or a erection or the female version of one a bean boner.Well the world may never know.

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Journaling4MeAgain · 56-60, F

It is called being asexual. I have struggled with it my whole life. I do have sex with my Husband, and I find pleasure in his pleasure, but it is not something I am driven to or have a deep want for. If I feel anything from the sex act, it is only when it is intense and somewhat painful. When I was younger, I did have erotic dreams, though, mostly when I took Wellbutrin.

I have a granddaughter who is the same, and she has no interest in it, dreams about it, or a drive to find a mate. *shrugs* Her siblings call her cinnamon bun( not in a mean way), and that is code to not talk about such things around her, because it makes her uncomfortable.

super53 · M

@Journaling4MeAgain Thank you for replying and the first hand knowledge.I had wondered about it now i know some of what you go through.take care

Docdon23 · M

Sometimes it can be a matter of low hormones. Not everyone is horny all the time, or even that interested in sex. I also have found several women who, as they age, are less interested in sex, again, probably due to declining hormones.

lpthehermit · 56-60, M

i think of sex constantly and like many others,i dont have a partner\spouse and am very lonely. masturbation, chatting here and enjoying the photo albums is the only sex life i have. i have a perfect strikeout\rejection average. whatever women are looking for, they assume i dont have it.

Fawma123 · 46-50, M

What's normal

dirge

I think most of the people who don't think about sex at all spend a lot of time thinking about trains.

Nunki · 31-35, F

It's not a big deal

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