Is it normal to not have sex with a person or yourself?

We all know of being addicted to sex weather its people or your hand.I know there's a balence that is good for you and your state of mind.But what do people do that dont have sex think about ,feel or dont they feel anything .Maybe its like a person who doesnt like sports ,they dont care about it.i wonder if they have a wet dream or a erection or the female version of one a bean boner.Well the world may never know.

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Journaling4MeAgain · 56-60, F

It is called being asexual. I have struggled with it my whole life. I do have sex with my Husband, and I find pleasure in his pleasure, but it is not something I am driven to or have a deep want for. If I feel anything from the sex act, it is only when it is intense and somewhat painful. When I was younger, I did have erotic dreams, though, mostly when I took Wellbutrin.

I have a granddaughter who is the same, and she has no interest in it, dreams about it, or a drive to find a mate. *shrugs* Her siblings call her cinnamon bun( not in a mean way), and that is code to not talk about such things around her, because it makes her uncomfortable.

super53 · M

@Journaling4MeAgain Thank you for replying and the first hand knowledge.I had wondered about it now i know some of what you go through.take care