Is it normal to not have sex with a person or yourself?

We all know of being addicted to sex weather its people or your hand.I know there's a balence that is good for you and your state of mind.But what do people do that dont have sex think about ,feel or dont they feel anything .Maybe its like a person who doesnt like sports ,they dont care about it.i wonder if they have a wet dream or a erection or the female version of one a bean boner.Well the world may never know.