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Any ideas how to stop fear of blood pressure check?

I have had white coat syndrome many years. My actual blood pressure is ok but as soon as ANY cuff goes on my arm, my heart races. I'm afraid of it being high, which of course MAKES it high. It's self fulfilling prophecy. The root fear is that I should be thinner (Even though my blood pressure has always been ok).

My mom would ridicule that I should always catch everything that could possibly be wrong, health wise. It was oppressive and made me fear many things, especially blood pressure because I could have *prevented* it, if it were to be high. I really don't want to fear this anymore. I've even avoided going on doctor visits because I know they'll do blood pressure checks. I brought it up to my therapist but they don't help... many times they just nod. 😧 Any ideas to lessen the fear?
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Sazzio · 36-40, M
Ah! So it been "Grilled in" in u by your mum? Am afraid yer gonna have to find your own way Coralmist. Something that is grilled in by parent will remain.

I have my counselor who has helped me A LOT to understand me about me it took about 11 sessions I feel stronger. My past doesn't affect my future, my anger has reduced drastically (the inner anger unnoticed by people) and I make decisions in a leadership manner more or less.

So to me it looks like it been grilled in wha can u do? Just know that if we think something bad is gonna happen it will not happen we only thought it might happen.

Therapist do set out homeworks we should try and do what they tell us at least give it two week attempt.