In your silly little minds

when someone is really down and expressing themselves and NOT asking for advice why do you think its okay to insert your “I know you feel… but you need to do this” Are you sick?

when someone is really excited and you say “oh nice but make sure you’re…” are you sick????

Im bored and have a little time so I might pm the specific people im thinking of but for all you other people that do this please feel free to answer.

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SW-User

No, I'm not sick, just caring.
But I will try to remember that you just want a cheering section and not anyone's actual thoughts.

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Ohbabe · 26-30, F

@SW-User or im on a site that was made with the intention to express vulnerable things about yourself. I dont care if you have thoughts and feelings. What happened in your life that made you feel entitled to give a stranger unsolicited advice?

SW-User

@Ohbabe I had children.

And what happened in YOUR life that makes you want to insult people who take your posts seriously enough to give you caring advice??

Ohbabe · 26-30, F

@SW-User im not your child. Give them unsolicited advice. Not me.

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

You youngsters seem to think you can spill your guts all over social media and it’s

just you expressing yourself

But you’ve done it on a public platform !
Which means people will see it and empathise or sympathise……which is obviously what you want or you’d stick it somewhere more appropriate. Like your Whiteboard !

If you don’t want comment on it, don’t put it out there !

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Ohbabe · 26-30, F

@Picklebobble2 Lets think about what this platform is made for. People to spill their guts and emotions. Im not saying not to comment. Im asking for an explanation as to why you think unsolicited advice is ever okay. If a person does not ask for something, dont give it. And you still didn’t address that

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

@Ohbabe No. What you want is for people to agree with what you’re saying without you being asked to qualify what you’re saying.

Like I said if you put it in a public place……

Ohbabe · 26-30, F

@Picklebobble2 when im talking about my fucking life why are you trying to disagree and im a stranger. And that makes you weird. On a post where im making an opinion that makes sense. If im talking about being happy that my titties are getting sucked it’s weird for you to interject and bring in your negative mood.

JustGoneNow

I just hold your hand… and listen.

MethDozer · M

That's why I don't invite opinions on subjects I don't want any opinion or advice response to by bringing them up or expressing them.

Ohbabe · 26-30, F

@MethDozer thats what this site is intended for

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