In your silly little minds

when someone is really down and expressing themselves and NOT asking for advice why do you think its okay to insert your “I know you feel… but you need to do this” Are you sick?

when someone is really excited and you say “oh nice but make sure you’re…” are you sick????

Im bored and have a little time so I might pm the specific people im thinking of but for all you other people that do this please feel free to answer.

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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

You youngsters seem to think you can spill your guts all over social media and it’s

just you expressing yourself

But you’ve done it on a public platform !
Which means people will see it and empathise or sympathise……which is obviously what you want or you’d stick it somewhere more appropriate. Like your Whiteboard !

If you don’t want comment on it, don’t put it out there !

BlueVeins · 26-30

@Picklebobble2 The social expectation though, is that people will respond to sensitive situations with care and compassion. When ya go around posting unsolicited advice, that can make people feel like you're blaming them for their own problems. Not sayin' you should never do it because I think there are situations where it's genuinely helpful, but do your best to read the room and if nothing else, make your intentions abundantly clear in doing so.

Ohbabe · 26-30, F

@Picklebobble2 Lets think about what this platform is made for. People to spill their guts and emotions. Im not saying not to comment. Im asking for an explanation as to why you think unsolicited advice is ever okay. If a person does not ask for something, dont give it. And you still didn’t address that

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

@Ohbabe No. What you want is for people to agree with what you’re saying without you being asked to qualify what you’re saying.

Like I said if you put it in a public place……

Ohbabe · 26-30, F

@Picklebobble2 when im talking about my fucking life why are you trying to disagree and im a stranger. And that makes you weird. On a post where im making an opinion that makes sense. If im talking about being happy that my titties are getting sucked it’s weird for you to interject and bring in your negative mood.