In your silly little minds

when someone is really down and expressing themselves and NOT asking for advice why do you think its okay to insert your “I know you feel… but you need to do this” Are you sick?

when someone is really excited and you say “oh nice but make sure you’re…” are you sick????

Im bored and have a little time so I might pm the specific people im thinking of but for all you other people that do this please feel free to answer.

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SW-User

No, I'm not sick, just caring.
But I will try to remember that you just want a cheering section and not anyone's actual thoughts.

BlueVeins · 26-30

@SW-User so tone deaf

SW-User

@BlueVeins what does music have to do with this?

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Ohbabe · 26-30, F

@SW-User wants your interest in giving out unwanted advice? maybe dig a little deeper there and find where that need comes from. Because it definitely seems sick

SW-User

@Ohbabe I could just as well ask what is your interest in telling strangers about your intimate life! If you post something here, you are telling it to me. If you tell me something, and I take you seriously, I'm going to have thoughts and feelings about it.

Ohbabe · 26-30, F

@SW-User or im on a site that was made with the intention to express vulnerable things about yourself. I dont care if you have thoughts and feelings. What happened in your life that made you feel entitled to give a stranger unsolicited advice?

SW-User

@Ohbabe I had children.

And what happened in YOUR life that makes you want to insult people who take your posts seriously enough to give you caring advice??

Ohbabe · 26-30, F

@SW-User im not your child. Give them unsolicited advice. Not me.