Will you brush my hair

I am guessing...your hair was not brushed kindly as a child. Many parents are far too rough brushing their childrens' hair. It hurts and scares them and they disregard. So...when you are suffering...you do not want to make yourself suffer more by putting yourself through that trauma again. It is not you being lazy...it is you trying to protect yourself.

You need to teach yourself a new relationship with brushing your hair. A gentler kinder one. So it will not be as difficult for you anymore. Sit down somewhere cozy and comfy. Make your environment safe soothing and nice. And then....when your brush your hair...be gentle with yourself!! Dont just rip at your head like how you were likely raised! That is hurting yourself! Slowly and gently work out the knots, using your fingers when necessary. If the knot is TOO painful and difficult to get out. You are right. Cut it out w scissors. Do not force yourself to go through pain just so your hair can look more presentable to others in your mind. That is wrong and cruel to do to yourself.

I really hope this helps. I can't actually be there to brush your hair for you...so this is the next best thing I can offer. Good luck you can do it!! I believe in you! Show yourself the kindness and love you were missing out on until you can find more others who will do this for you too! As you learn to love yourself and be gentler with yourself you will become more confident and...behave this way with others more too. You won't be alone forever. 🤗

There are some days i just dont want to come my hair.

Sure if it makes you smile again

Yes Ma'am, I would love to.

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I would be honoured

Yes , of course

I'd love to!